Is the ever-expanding LGBTQIA+ community a little hard to keep up with? We know it can get confusing sometimes, so we created a glossary to spell everything out for you! Keep your language inclusive, and up-to-date with this reference point. General Terms Biology: Your assigned sex determines biology at birth based on genitalia and chromosomes. […]
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The Progress of Pride: A Brief LGBTQ+ History
What’s the biggest source of stress in your life right now? Maybe you have a big decision to make about where to work, which school to attend, or who to invite to your party. Maybe you’re worried about money, or perhaps your car is long overdue for an oil change. The most basic responsibilities in […]
Alternative Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day
With Valentine’s Day around the corner, you may already be planning your celebration of the most romantic day of the year. Here are some suggestions for alternative ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day if you’re looking for something different than the proverbial dinner and a movie. Whether you’re on a budget, looking for adventure, staying in, or simply […]
How to Use a Butt Plug
A lot of our guests at SSMTOYS’s have had questions about how to use a butt plug, which is one of the most popular sex toys around. We’re here to answer your questions about this unisex toy that’s great for beginners and those who are already fans of anal play. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to select […]
The Best Anal Sex Positions for Backdoor Pleasure
Take your backdoor pleasure to the next level with anal sex positions that provide the best stimulation. To enjoy these anal sex positions (which range from beginner to advanced), all you need is some lube, patience, and willingness to experiment. Many people are cautious about anal sex for fear that it may be uncomfortable. Good […]
How to Use Nipple Clamps
If you’ve heard of nipple clamps but aren’t totally sure how they work, this guide is for you. Keep reading to learn all about what nipple clamps are, why people like them, the different types of nipple clamps, and how to use them. What are nipple clamps? Nipple clamps are unisex kinky sex toys designed for use […]
How to Use a Ball Gag
If you’ve heard of ball gags and want to learn more about them, you’ve come to the right place! Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about using ball gag as part of bondage and BDSM play. What is a ball gag? A ball gag is a bondage sex toy that is placed around the wearer’s head, with […]
Five Ways to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship
If you’re thinking about bringing a sex toy like a vibrator, dildo, or butt plug into the bedroom with your partner but aren’t sure how to bring up the subject, keep reading for some expert tips. Couples sex toys can be a wonderful way to add intimacy to your relationship. Whether you wind up using them long-term […]
How to Use a Dildo
Curious about dildos? You’ve come to the right place. SSMTOYS’s sexperts have put together an in-depth guide just for you. There are various types of dildos, so depending on whether you’re using one for solo play, with a partner, or for strap-on sex, there will be different ways to use it. Adding a dildo to […]
How To Use a Vibrator
Using a vibrator or personal massager may seem easy, and it is—once you get the hang of it. But if you’re trying a vibrator for the first time, the process of selecting a sex toy and then actually pleasuring yourself with it can seem daunting. If you want to improve your sex life (including your solo play), […]