BDSM-like practices have existed for centuries across cultures. Ancient art from places like Greece and Rome shows flagellation in erotic or ritual contexts. The Kama Sutra describes consensual impact play. In medieval Europe, religious self-flagellation sometimes blended with erotic undertones.
The modern terms “sadism” and “masochism” come from two 18th- and 19th-century writers. The Marquis de Sade (1740–1814), a French aristocrat, wrote novels filled with extreme, often non-consensual fantasies of domination and cruelty—his name gave us “sadism.” Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (1836–1895), an Austrian author, explored themes of voluntary submission in works like Venus in Furs, inspiring “masochism.”
In the 20th century, BDSM moved from taboo literature into subcultures, especially post-World War II leather communities in the U.S. The internet in the 1990s brought it into wider awareness through forums and groups. Today, it’s recognized in psychology as a valid form of sexual expression when consensual—removed from diagnostic manuals as a disorder unless it causes distress or involves non-consent.